2017 JAN LEAD Camp
KNOW WHO YOU ARE!
The day’s activities began with the first leadership workshop
facilitated by JA Nigeria’s Executive Director Mrs. Simi Nwogugu who took the
girls through a very informative session on emotional intelligence.
Mrs. Nwogugu introduced the girls to a range of concepts including self-awareness and self-management. In
a practical exercise, the participants had the chance to role-play as emotional
intelligence coaches and clients so that they could identify what they value
and the essence of who they are.
The girls were encouraged to understand the environment they
thrive in; their natural strengths; and how to put themselves in a place where
they can shine. Becoming comfortable with who you are.
This
session was a perfect lead into the first speaker session of the week featuring
leading women in entertainment.
Turning Passion to Profit.
This was the
first panel of the week which consisted of leading women in the creative and entertainment
industries. The panelists were, Kafayat Shafau-Ameh 'Kaffy', Imagneto Dance
Company, Oyinkansola Fawehinmi 'FozaDoza', Entertainment Lawyer, Technolawgical
Partners, Uduak Isong Oguamanam, Writer/Producer, Blessing Effiom-Egbe, Writer/Producer
and Emem Ema, CEO, One Management.
They talked to the girls about turning passion into profit while they shared their journey to the top and how they did it. It was an exciting session that ended with an unplanned dance session with Kaffy.
They talked to the girls about turning passion into profit while they shared their journey to the top and how they did it. It was an exciting session that ended with an unplanned dance session with Kaffy.
FozaDoza shared her lessons from her journey so far. Her
words to the girls were “give value excellently and goodness and mercy shall
follow you”. While Kaffy emphasized on the need to for the girls to trust that
every experience is necessary for their life journey. She explained saying “whatever
you’re experiencing now is a part of the process, don’t run away from it. Face
your reality and don’t try to impress anyone”. Blessing talked to the girls
about hard work and consistency and told them “laziness is not an option”. Uduak
and Emem implored the girls to prepare so when an opportunity comes, it will
yield success.
Sexual
Health & Breast Cancer Awareness.
At the 2017 JAN LEAD Camp, Dr. Toke Oke of Brookside Medical Practices talked to the girls
about various health issues facing girls including rape and the dangers of
having unprotected sex.
Dr. Toke
Oke also provided insights to the girls about other health issues like yeast
infections and infections from the improper use of sanitary products during
their menstruation. On the issue of candida, she told the girls that candidiasis
is only not a sexually transmitted infection but can also be caused
by imbalanced diet.
This year
in partnership with the Pink Pearl Foundation, an organization founded and led
by a JAN LEAD Camp alumna, Orode Uduaghan, the girls participated in a breast
cancer awareness session facilitated by Dr. Ejiro, Ogomigo, Medical Director, Obisus
Diagnostics.
On
prevention of breast cancer, Dr. Ejiro advised the girls to eat right and avoid
becoming obese as obesity sets one at high risk. She finished her session with
a practical demonstration of how to examine one’s breast and advised the girls
to see a doctor if they observed any changes in their breasts.
Getting Your Message Across.
At the
LEAD Camp, participants are encouraged to be bold enough to inspire change in
the world. A key part of the activities is the media mentors’ and participants’
media presentation. The girls are asked to develop a media message on any
social issue affecting the girl child in Nigeria and get their message across
via print, electronic or digital media.
The media
practitioners mentoring the girls this year are:
Adenike Oyetunde is an on air radio personality
with a few years in her cap.. A strong lover of children, she also works with
the Irede Foundation, which seeks to provide support for child amputees and
their care-givers. Adenike is always looking for ways to improve the lives of
the younger generation. She has spoken at a number of platforms for young
adults about the journey to self-discovery.
Munachi (Muna)
Okey-Nwosu is
currently a member of the BellaNaija editorial team. She holds a degree in Mass
Communication. She has on various occasions spoken to young children around
personal and career development. While in university, she worked at the
community radio station where she ran a weekly programme tagged "Daily
reads". She also helped in the production of a departmental magazine. She
enjoys reading, taking pictures and editing videos in her spare time.
Princess Abumere is a journalist and the Deputy
Editor-in-chief at Pulse Nigeria. Abumere hosts ‘The Morning Show’, Pulse
Nigeria’s daily morning show on Pulse Nigeria’s Facebook live. She is also the
producer of pop culture podcast ‘Loose Talk’. Previously Abumere worked at
Viacom International Media Networks Africa as the Digital Media coordinator for
MTV Base Africa and Nickelodeon Africa in Nigeria. She has featured on TV shows
including ‘The Channels Book Club’, ‘The Crunch’ on EbonyLife TV and ‘African
Literati’ on Africa Magic. Abumere graduated from the University of Lagos where
she studied Mass Communication. She also earned an MA in Broadcast Journalism
from the University of Sheffield’s School of Journalism.
Naya Rhythm is a multi-lingual, Nigerian
singer/songwriter who is creating new dimensions of Afrobeat and Afro-fusion.
Her music is a blend of highlife and traditional Igbo sounds, mixed with
Nigerian pidgin, American slang, and sprinkled with influences from South
African Zulu music. Naya was born in Lagos, grew up in the US, and has lived in
many cities around the globe such as Lagos, New York, Hong Kong, and
Washington, DC. Her deep love for various cultures shine through her music. Hr
voice has been described as a cross between American R&B divas singers Toni
Braxton and Brandy; and Naya's visual brand has been compared to the likes of
British artist FKA Twigs.
Anne Nwaghodoh joined Channels television in 2014 as a news anchor and
co-host of ‘Metrofile’, a social diary programme. She holds a B.Sc (Hons) in
Mass Communication from Madonna University, Okija, Anambra state. She started
her broadcasting career at Splash 105.5 FM, Ibadan as a major news anchor, who produced
and presented a diversity of programmes including a weekly biography of
specific individuals/documentaries, food/nutrition, lifestyle, entertainment
and magazine programmes. She became popularly known as ‘THE GOLDFISH’. With a
knack for presentation and news stories, she hopes to make a huge impact in the
broadcast industry. She enjoys swimming, and also loves travelling, playing scrabble
and watching movies. One more thing that makes Anne a very happy girl is…….
Shopping!
Funmi Oyaide is a graduate of Sociology
from the University of Ibadan. Her foray into the media started with her love
for makeup. She is currently a professional makeup artist as well as presenter,
copywriter, producer, director and motion graphics editor. Of all her
achievements, her greatest is the fact that she is a mother of two beautiful
kids! Funmi is the Head, Promo & Styling, Silverbird Group. She also produces
and directs ‘The Scoop on STV’ and ‘Moviemania. She is a great cook, and enjoys
swimming and golf.
DAY 3 – 2017 JAN
LEAD Camp
“DARE TO BE
DIFFERENT”
The day began with
HOD Consulting’s leadership workshop on goal setting and strategic planning
which was very informative and engaging. The facilitator of the session Mrs.
Simi Nwogugu talked to the participants about the importance of setting SMART
goals and making strategic plans. As the discussion went on, she helped the
girls realise the difference between goals and dreams. Goals are
different from dreams because they are more concrete and achievable.
She said, "Goals include plans, steps and achievable
results but dreams are vague and you’re not taking a particular action to
getting there". Giving an
example of the difference between dreams and goals, she explained, “a
dream is ‘I want to run in the Olympics’ and a goal is ‘I want to run in inter
house sports this year’.
With this understanding, some of
the girls shared the following goals:
"I want to get A’s in all my exams"
"I want to get 20 marks higher than my JAMB cut- off mark"
and her steps were " studying past questions"
On setting SMART goals Mrs. Nwogugu
employed the use of drama as a practical exercise to help the girls understand
the concept better.
S - specific (particular, precise, tangible)
M - measurable (there should be a certain part of it you can measure,
so you can see a progress)
A - actionable/achievable (if the behaviour does not align with
the goal, the goal is not achievable)
R - Realistic (the goal must be realistic to you)
T - Time (the goal should be achieved within a specified time
period)
Empowerment
Session – Women in Technology
The empowerment session on Tuesday was with women who are excelling
and dominating in the male dominated technology industries. On the panel was Maria Rotilu, Country Head,
Uber Nigeria; Damilola Teidi, CEO, GoMyWay.com; Lotte Elsa Goos, Co-Founder,
NESA; Adedoyin Pearse, General Counsel, Siemens Nigeria; and Margaret Odunukwe,
Marketing Lead SSA, Uber. These women shared their experiences from childhood,
having to make a career choice, the challenges/opposition that they faced, how
they overcame and how they got to where they are today.
Based on their experiences they discussed the ‘Impostor Syndrome’ with
the girls and how it can affect women who are trying to build a career in this
field and many other fields.
Maria Rotilu explained the impostor syndrome as simply being
negative in one’s thoughts: questioning your own ability to succeed and
creating excuses that stops you wanting more or aspiring to do more. She gave the girls this advice. “know that you
are enough and you can do it"
The panelists also talked
about accepting change and making bold and life changing decisions which most
of them had to make at a relatively early age. They encouraged the girls not to
be in a hurry to grow up but enjoy their youthfulness and being confident.
Lotte Elsa Goos said the one thing young women lack is confidence.
“Every girl at LEAD has amazing potential. In the moments when you do not believe in yourself,
look at others for inspiration. Do not doubt yourself, confidence is key. You
need confidence to stay on the path so keep believing in yourself.”
The ladies whilst sharing their experiences, highlighted the
importance of having like-minded friends, acquaintances, mentors. They advised
the girls to take up internship opportunities. Their parting words to the girls
were:
- Never settle to fast and
never be scared.
- You’re not just a little
girl. You’re a boss lady in the making.
- Don’t grow up too fast. If
you do, you eventually miss being 14 years old.
Personal Grooming
and Etiquette – Step into your panache
“If you want to make it in life, you must be bold. Step into your
panache” – Mrs. Janet Adetu, Founder & CEO JSK Etiquette, Consortium.
She began the session with dancing to test the boldness of the
girls. She was impressed. And went on to talk to the girls about the A.B.C.D.E.F
of etiquette.
i.
Appearance
ii.
Behaviour
iii.
Communication
iv.
Decorum
v.
Elegance
vi.
Finesse
She said to the girls “You are
diamonds, everyone here is a precious stone. The original stone has rough edges
like people. But when you have been polished, people can see your true value
and you will be very precious”.
“Be neat, invest in nice clothes,
be a confident speaker, have a grooming checklist, pay attention to your nutrition. Etiquette
is your panache advantage. You only have one time to make a first impression.”
DAY 4 – 2017 LEAD
Camp
COURAGE,
CONFIDENCE, CHARACTER
“Courage is not working without fear but working in spite of
fear”. – Aishetu Dozie
The day began with a highly motivational session with four
powerhouses in the Nigerian finance industry.
The panelists were Mrs. Nimi Akinkugbe, CEO, Best Man Games; Anwuli
Femi-Pearse, Treasury, Union Bank Nigeria; Aishetu Dozie, Head Investment
Banking (West Africa), Rand Merchant Bank; and Sanyade Okoli, CEO, Alpha
African Capital.
The session spanned from discussions about building a
successful career as women in finance to a motivating counselling session. The
girls shared their aspirations while expressing their confusion and certain
obstacles in their decision-making processes brought up by their parents or
circumstances surrounding them. The panelists paid keen attention to each girl
and gave them great advice on how to manage the various situations in which
they found themselves. They said to the girls, “Look at the world as your playing
field: be hungry, be humble, speak less and have courage”.
Communicating
with Confidence
This was a development session on ‘communicating with confidence’
facilitated by Mrs. Ini Otuk Abimbola, Lead Consultant, Thistle Praxis Limited.
It was an interesting session that also turned out to be very inspiring.
Mrs. Abimbola
grew up as the daughter of a road side watch repairer. She grew up poor and was
hungry most of the time. She remembers not having enough to eat. Her father was
very focused on education so he made sure she went to public schools. She had
the worst school uniform so she had a reason to have low self-esteem and low
confidence. She said “Do not let anyone talk you down and belittle you. “
Speaking on communication, she talked about different types of
communication: there is verbal, non-verbal and written communication. The
channels include body language, word of mouth and tone of voice.
She went on to add that the only way you can communicate with
confidence is if you have knowledge which means you must be open to learning
new things and carrying out research where needed. Your confidence is built
because you have the necessary knowledge. You must know how to be assertive as
you speak. Learn to make eye contact, when you maintain eye contact you are
present in the conversation. The way you present yourself is the way people
will receive you. Be very clear when you are speaking and writing. Take a deep
breath before you talk. Speak clearly and go straight to the point.
Mrs. Abimbola also spoke to the girls about the importance of
having their temper under control in the
midst of frustration no matter how minor. On this note, she also stressed the
importance of maintaining cordial relationships. She concluded by advising the
girls that silence can never be mis-quoted and they must understand that female friendship is a powerful
force.
Written and Published by: Petra Erhiyoma, JAN
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